Or you can choose to be gorgeous, charming and irresistible all your life. How do you think you can do that…my thoughts are by embracing sensuality!
This where the fine line comes in. I am mature, yes 60 + postage and handling and I consider myself a sensual woman. Was I always? No, it has lain in wait hidden at times, bubbling and bursting forth at times and sadly forgotten at times. As I have evolved into writing and speaking on the topic part of my concern is that I may appear ‘sleazy’. Now that may be an inner work process for me to work on and that I accept.
My other concern is when I am speaking or coaching I can see and read what is happening in front of me and adjust spontaneously. I do take the mickey out of myself with glee, I do have a whacky sense of humour, I am a little irreverent… it is what makes me real and authentic. I would certainly not describe myself as stiff and starchy! However, what I blog and post is out there. Even as I type this I am thinking that I know I come from a place of love, respect and integrity…so maybe I am answering my own question. Don’t you love it when you reach a realisation as you write?
Am I walking a fine line? Am I being deliciously wicked? Or am I being exquisitely all woman? Does it matter that I am mature? Noooooooo! My guess is I am all three at different times to suit the occasion.
How do I describe sensual? It is the way you walk, talk, think, act, what you do…and even what you don’t do. It is the lure of the promised not yet delivered. It is a feeling that causes your mind to drift and dream… to discover your inner voice alerting your other senses that something wonderful is occurring. It embodies your personality and aura.
It is enhanced by confidence, not loud and brash, rather that quiet inner confidence that draws on your feminine energy and power and is reflected in graciousness and elegance. And in love and fun, it includes classy yet can be risqué’.
Integrating your sensuality is as important as taking care of any other part of your mind and body. Now it is rated higher than having a tooth pulled, don’t panic! She has not discussed sex you may be thinking…OK, no I haven’t and yes now I have decided I will, just briefly…my thoughts are if you do not know yourself sensually how can you fully enjoy sex? When sensuality and sex meet….woo hoo or something even better happens! And it certainly not about painting ceiling beige!!!
When that sensual part of you is let loose and free it opens the more playful side of you. Embracing your sensual self helps build confidence and brings you a new love, light and laughter that may have been missing before.
Developing confidence is my passion in life. To help women to discover, refine or rediscover their voice, speak out and live their lives to the fullest. It is a joy to me to see a woman sparkle with sensuous confidence.
I am often asked what I would know about not having confidence. I happen to know a lot! Like many of us we have had major life challenges, I have had more than my share…and that is when the fun, life and sensuality are sucked right out of you.
The challenge whatever it may be takes priority, then you push fun away because you think you don’t deserve it, don’t have time, have to much to do, blah, blah, blah and suddenly you realise you have forgotten how. Then you find you just don’t know where to start, you wonder where that inner spark has gone, your confidence crashes and it becomes so easy to slip into a downward spiral. That inner voice says ‘no you can’t, you are too young to old, too fat to thin blah, blah, blah!
Being sensual can unfold for you, we can work on that!
I am about re-awakening that spirit, letting your sensuality fly in the breeze and allow the gorgeous, charming and irresistible...the slightly wicked, gracious yet elegant you to take flight.
Yes, I know what you are thinking at 60 + postage and handling Di can’t fly over the ocean like that! True, I can’t quite fly like the image…just watch me give it a shot!